We began by pausing the termination discussion and conducting structured interviews with both parties to understand what was actually happening beneath the surface. This wasn't a performance audit—it was a communication diagnosis. We asked each side what they valued about the relationship, what frustrated them most, and what they believed the other party understood about their needs and constraints.
What emerged immediately was a mismatch in working styles, not competence. The client expected high-touch, phone-first communication with rapid responses to urgent requests. The advisor preferred structured, email-based exchanges that allowed for thoughtful analysis and documentation. Neither side had articulated these preferences clearly, so both had begun interpreting the other's behavior as disinterest or disrespect.
We reframed the situation for the client's leadership: this wasn't an advisor who didn't care—it was two professionals operating under incompatible assumptions about what "responsive" meant. The advisor's technical work had been flawless. The relationship could be saved with structure, not replacement.
We proposed a governance framework that honored both sides' working styles. A recurring 30-minute call every Wednesday would give the client predictable, dedicated time to raise issues, ask questions, and get real-time updates without needing to chase the advisor between meetings. Outside of that call, communication would default to email, with a commitment from the advisor to respond within one business day to non-urgent matters and within two hours to anything flagged as time-sensitive.
We documented these agreements in a simple expectations framework that included escalation protocols, email formatting suggestions, and clear definitions of what "urgent" meant in this relationship. This wasn't a rigid contract—it was a shared understanding that both parties could reference when friction arose.
The framework had immediate effects. The client no longer felt ignored, because they had predictable access and knew when they'd get answers. The advisor no longer felt overwhelmed by unscheduled outreach, because the volume of interruptions dropped by 80% once the weekly call absorbed most questions. Small issues that might have snowballed into resentment were instead addressed during the scheduled calls, preventing tension from accumulating.
Within one week, deliverables resumed on schedule, trust was visibly restored, and the client decided to retain the advisor going forward. What had looked like incompetence was actually a fixable communication gap—and the organization avoided the expensive, risky, and time-consuming process of sourcing and onboarding a replacement during a critical tax reporting season.

